A story by Nina Begesh, a communications and administration professional and a holder of the Hungarian Diaspora Scholarship. Nina is of Hungarian origin on her father’s side and she has been living in Hungary since 2023. She strongly identifies with Hungarian culture, traditions, and values, and supports the mission of Hungarian communities across borders to preserve cultural identity and build meaningful connections within the global Hungarian network.

Many people who have Hungarian roots feel interested when they hear about the Hungarian Diaspora Scholarship. But very often one doubt appears immediately: “I don’t speak Hungarian. Maybe this program is not for me.”

In reality, this situation is very common. Over generations, many diaspora families lost the language. Life moved to different countries, children grew up speaking other languages, and Hungarian slowly disappeared from everyday family life. This does not make the connection to Hungary less real.

And it definitely should not stop anyone from applying.

Universities in Hungary understand that many diaspora students start their journey without speaking Hungarian. That is why they offer different opportunities to learn the language. Many universities provide Hungarian language classes for international students alongside their main studies.

In addition, the scholarship program itself supports language learning. There are free online Hungarian courses available for scholarship holders, and mentors often organize informal conversation evenings where students can practice speaking in a relaxed atmosphere.

And of course, there is something even more valuable — learning Hungarian while living in Hungary. Being surrounded by the language every day makes a huge difference. You hear it on the street, in cafés, in shops, and slowly it becomes familiar.

I remember my own first months very clearly. At the beginning I did not know Hungarian at all. Even saying a few simple words in a shop made me nervous. I was afraid of making mistakes and sometimes felt shy about trying.

But very quickly I discovered something important: Hungarians are incredibly kind and encouraging when they see someone trying to learn their language. Even a few words are often welcomed with smiles and patience.

Teachers are also very supportive and inspiring. They understand how challenging Hungarian can be and help students move forward step by step. There are also special programs dedicated entirely to learning the language, such as courses at Balassi Summer University, where students can focus on Hungarian language, history, and culture.

Over time, something wonderful happens. Little by little, the language that once felt impossible becomes part of your daily life.

And there is a special feeling when you realize that you are beginning to speak the language of your ancestors.

It may start with just a few words. But those words can open a very meaningful connection — to history, to culture, and to a part of yourself.

So if you have Hungarian roots but do not speak the language yet, do not let that stop you. The most important step is simply to begin. 

by Nina Begesh